By Elsewhere February 17, in Relationship Advice. Someone told me guys can't care less about girls profession but I recently started waitress job and I am ashamed to say what I do I'm asking about successful guys not bc I'm a gold digger, but bc I want to know if I'm looked down upon by people who made it. I'll answer your question with a question. Would you date a fellow waiter who didn't have the education you have? All things considered equal, I wouldn't.
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I wouldn't either today. Everyone I've ever dated was doing entry level things, because I never judged the quality of who someone was by what they did, but now, at 30, I want a financial equal.
I've had to take care of people for far, far too long. Personally, it wouldn't bother me a bit. Elsewhere, you have an Honorable Job, there is nothing woring with what you do. No matter how much schooling you have, it doesnt matter.
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YOU are doing the best that you can with the situation that has presented itself. You are working and working hard i am sure. The least of your issues should be what guys think about you and your dating. Sure, its normal to feel the way you do when you go from Place A to Place Z but you are still in Place and thats all that matters. Things will fall into place, they always do. Ride this situation out until you get yourself on track.
Things will be fine.
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Let me know if i could help. Sure why not. It's an honorable profession and not an easy job. I dating a waiter for a while while racing - for the extra money.
An eye opening experience.
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I see no problem with 'successful' guys dating a waitress. If there's a problem it's with them not the profession. Clearly you've never been a waiter! The stories from restaurants are dating. It's rarely, 'yeah I served sammiches today and came home. Sure, I'm broke, but I enjoy it. I'm a waitress because nothing better came along, I'm looking for a "normal" job in my field but it's tough to find something. I'm sending like 30 resumes daily and I mostly get Spam responces that infuriates me btw they post job offers then reply to you with "you're a perfect candidate just go to this website and give us your credit score" or "you're hired, are you interested in future education?
Elsewhere, I absolutely would. I'm old enough to have learned that education, profession and money have nothing to do with character. I used to date a woman from an extraordinarily wealthy family. In the end I broke up with her because she lacked the character I seek. As long as I made enough for the both of us and kids, I don't care what my husbands profession is.
Education, intelligence and drive are prerequisites for me. Did this waitress recently lose a higher paying or more professional job? We are in a recession, after dating. Is this educated waitress actively looking for a position more commensurate with her education?
Not a problem. If she was happy being a waitress the rest of her life Not that there's anything wrong with being a waitress. It's just too far away from where I am and where I still want to go in life. I have dated doctors and lawyers and I didn't really care what they did for a living. I am financially well off and can take care of myself. I think it comes down to if you have chemistry with them or not and what kind of person they are. A job is simply a means waitress an end.
A persons value and intelligence is not defined by their earnings and job. Think about it. Is an Emergency Medical Technician automatically less intelligent than say waitress Managing Director because their earnings are less? Is a variant bellebrooksxo onlyfans congratulate Neurosurgeon less intelligent than the Chief Executive of a multinational corporation because the surgeon earns less?
Intelligence often bears no relation to employment and earnings. So, someone being a waitress or not would be a pretty irrelevant factor to me. You're doing what you need to do to support yourself while you make moves toward a more "career" position. That's the sort of thing successful people do. People who are successful AND who are decent human beings recognize that. People who will look down on you because of the job you happen to be doing at the moment aren't worth your time Some people are just like that.
I have a college degree, I was a radio DJ for many years local celebrity I've had my share of "eye-opening" moments in regards to how people are viewed and treated because of their jobs over the last 2 years. In the end, though, the people who are worth letting into my life and worth spending time with don't really dating what job I'm doing. As long as it's legal and I'm reasonably happy, it's good enough. I'm currently working on a professional degree and I wouldn't mind at all if my girlfriend was a waiter.
From a guy's perspective, the job, status, income, and education of a woman does not matter as much as physical attractivenss. And obviously you've not been dating waiter a day in your life. It's never just serving food. I always have a dating to tell, and they're never the same. Must be why I have a blog to document all the fun and not so fun stuff I go through daily with this job.
Hey, how interesting is your job? Don't most people do the same thing at their job waitress Like, my bf has a good job as a computer consultant. When you ask him what he did, he says he fixed computers. And that's what he always says, because that's what he does.
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I think you're objecting to having a boring partner that won't entertain you rather than dating a partner who's a waitress or as a boring job. Customers were rude, pay was bad, owners were jerks and whole scene was pretenious and it waitress.
The online dating site for singles good thing that came out of it was that it caused me to realize the the service industry was not for me and it spurred me onto to getting a post secondary education.
Now I have a great career, it's interesting, beneficial to society, I make good money, opportunities for advancement I wouldn't go back to working the restaurants, no how, no way. I also rarely eat in restaurants - why? Because I know what kind of crap goes on in the kitchen. Edit: this was not a diner or a denny's type place I worked in. I don't look down on anyone who wants to do waitress, hey, it's their life and who is to say they aren't enjoying things more than me. I just don't think it takes alot of intellect to do it and I don't really understand why people choose to make a career out of it.
It's more along the lines of me thinking that they may not be living up to their potential. So to the OP, would I date a waitress? If she was doing it part time to get through university then yes, but as a career, no. If i was wealthy or successful i wouldn't have a problem. Society says other wise. Soon as https://telegram-web.online/about-me-examples-for-dating-sites-for-men.php very young prety girl is seen with a guy whos driving a car that gets loks people will think shes a gold digger.
I say if you work and make top 100 free dating money i wouldn't care, it shows that you are taking some responsibility, and aren't just living off of me.
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