I may be a married something, but I spent the ages of dating mostly online and met my husband on Tinder, so I know a thing or two about how it all works. The lesson? Guys love going dark for a few days or better — saying they had a great time and never reaching out again.
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Why do we do this? Hopefully you know better. Learn more about the guy. Give yourself time to actually get to know him before read more how great he dating. The classic not your from a guy for a week and either believing his excuses or making excuses for him.
If you want to text someone, text them.
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There were 3 guys Conor was one of them that I dated and dove into relationships with pretty quickly. Then both relationships became too much and I ended them. Had I paced myself and been a bit more of a realist no one wants to date the guy who drinks half a bottle of tequila and speaks to no one at a party I could have avoided ending those short relationships, which is just never fun.
For reference, we had our first date early a Tuesday and I met his mom that weekend. Back to my point.
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Early on in our relationship, I traveled to LA to speak at a workshop and while I was there, Conor had to fly to Atlanta to 20s his dad. I had just stopped seeing the guy with a wife, baby, and girlfriend so naturally I went to a dark place and Conor was beginning the phase-out. I told you I was bad at this dating thing. You know, because his life was one big lie. If someone shows you who they really are or tells you what they want, save yourself the trouble and walk away. Focus on your friends and yourself.
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