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Reader's Dilemma: Will Dating My Best Friend's Brother Ruin Our Relationship?
Fifteen years ago, I moved to New York City best a job. I became good friends with someone I knew casually in grad school, and eventually good friends with his husband, too. The three of us shared a bond because of our intense jobs in a big city, our midwestern roots, and complicated issues with our families. The last point is sort of the crux of this issue. The friend and I both brothers from skiing families, and ski really well together; our friendship has helped foster my continued love of skiing and winters even while living in New York.
About ten years ago he planned a ski trip for a group of friends, including his younger brother. His brother and I also became very good friends. Nothing has been complicated about falling for each other even though he lives in the Rockiesexcept that we sort of flubbed the reveal, and perhaps as a result, my friend is no longer speaking to me. This hurts. This is a friendship that has meant so much to me—and I thought to him, brothers. A while ago, I thought it might be: How do you convince a friend who is a dating black sheep that you still care about them, when you also care about someone else who blends easily into the family herd?
First off, congratulations on mandy_lee onlyfans new relationship! It means he trusted you to be honest, and now he feels foolish, friend even like you made a fool of him.
He may have been a real jerk—but he feels like you were a jerk to him, too. And even if the flubbed reveal was a complete accident, it probably dating salt in the wound. Were you scared of something going wrong? In denial? Instead, be as vulnerable and truthful as you can.
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Apologize sincerely for hurting him. Express the ways that you wish you had acted differently, and how you would do things differently in the best. Then, let it go. If he chooses not to reconnect with you, it will hurt, just as it does now. Try to move forward: work on building other friendships, and even looking for public skiing groups you can join.
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