Mumsnet has not checked the dating of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. He spends a lot on renting a place for himself.

A car on finance. Dating his new career there is much potential to earn more as each year passes with good progression. I am looking for a man to settle with and build a life with and start a family. These are things he is looking for. He is bitter and resents his situation. I try to be positive for him.

He apologised for never being able to take me out. With we just sit in and watch TV. Food is an issue. He barely eats and cooks very basic meals. He says this will get better once the weather improves so we can start going out more on walks etc. I went to his cold place again last night and and watched TV while he ate a bowl of pasta and I had crisps.

I often money his place hungry. He moaned the whole time about the state of the country etc. I want to be be happy, falling in love, going phrase, chelsea byrom onlyfans agree dates, restaurants, theatre etc dating these are the early days.

You've known him 3 months. He already wants to move in with you and is telling dating he doesn't like your lodger there but makes staying at his uncomfortable and uninviting. He ate pasta while you had crisps And you like this man?!

The only issue is money. He does cook nice but basic meals and a lovely breakfast. So you've been looking for a bitter, stingy man who refuses to buy basic food at full price, and won't even cook you pasta or turn the heating on for you? While simultaneously running a car on finance in London, and sending money to his https://telegram-web.online/manila-dating-site.php daughter because she is abroad but apparently not working and can't get benefits.

If not working, why isn't she coming back to the UK? I'll give you a clue - it's bullshit! God do not move in with this man, you'll be permanently bankrolling him. But I also know that you can cook good meals on very cheap ingredients and you don't have to live of plain pasta. There are plenty of free things with do, especially in London!

And why read more you walk in this weather?!? I walk every day of the year, the weather is part of it! Going out in howling wind and rain is fun! Perhaps he needs to rethink the car. Does he really need one, living and working in London?

And doesn't his daughter earn her own money abroad?! Things can't stay like this, he'll just be depressed and moan until he moves in with you. Log in to update your newsletter preferences. Money can't his daughter get a job and support herself assuming she's an adult? Or is the U. Don't mean it rudely trying to understand why she's living aboard if she's relying on her dad to pay and go without! He sounds like a good bloke but unless his money situation changes he'll be living off you for a long time.

How money you be able to go on maternity leave etc in the future if he can't afford any of this? In what way? How does he make you feel loved and wanted, does it go beyond compliments about looks and sex? If she's a child money isn't the mother supporting her? How much does he send monthly?

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Can he cut it down? But it's not just the money though, he is not dealing with this well. I can sort of understand his feelings but he makes no effort or creativity. He could still find free or cheap ways to make you feel special and do thoughtful things with he is feeling very insecure about his financial status and it's straining the relationship.

He is pessimistic, bitter, ranting and down. Maybe he is realising how little he has at 40 and how he isn't where he wanted, a mid life crisis if you like. I don't think a child would make him happy it would increase his burdens.

You not having a child yet and time ticking is not his problem. I think you need to think carefully about how much you actually want children and with you would be willing to do or overlook to have them. He is not ''everything you are looking for'' He is broke, negative about life and comes with a recent divorce and a child he doesn't see regularly. The fact that he wants to move in quickly is a red flag. The story he gave you could also be completely fabricated and you might very well have a ''cocklodger'' on your hands.

Anyway, sounds like he's angling to move in with you. Classic case really - feels hard done by after his divorce - wants his old life and financial lifestyle back - slots a solvent women into the gap, problem solved. I would give him some time, and things will seem better in the summer. My brother ended up a bit like this. He was doing well, but after a nasty dating, his ex bled him dry and he went from being pretty well-off money being on his uppers.

But then after a year or so, he met someone else and things got slowly better. There is a big difference in not earning any money and not having any money. There are dating loads of fun free things to do and see in London in February? Why aren't you doing them together?

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