Like a a lot of kids attending college, Kala is having a familiar quandary: We hooked up, now what? I am soon to be graduating from college and this guy I am sorta-kinda talking to stayed over the other night. There was a little kissy action but nothing serious. I still don't know where we stand in night "relationship" but how do I know what he hookups Now, this doesn't necessarily mean anything in terms of his greater interest in a relationship, but it's certainly a positive sign.

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There's one other indicator, and it's a big one hopefully. Did he have that thing that guys get, what my friend Leslie used to refer to as one of "your stupid boners? At a certain age, or certain point in hookups sex lives, we stop getting embarrassed about you potentially noticing SBs while cuddling, and actually become rather proud of them.

We stop doing that weird kind of snuggling where we push our butt out as if we were doing squats, so you won't notice our stupid boners, instead, we'll just let our stupid boner be himself.

Hello there. I like you. This is sexy. Boys have to deal with our SBs all the time. Personally, my favorite is when a make-out session gets cut short, and I have to walk the girl to her car, or to a spend, and have to unsuccessfully hide my SB in a fashion that won't cause a stranger to 1.

Call the police or 2. Point and laugh. It's funny because it's embarrassing, but it's also funny for her to watch me try and disguise it with a combination of pants camouflage or long flannel shirts. If he's into something more than night friendly sleepover, this the let him spend it's A-OK. And then the real snuggling can begin.

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