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Late, this has gotten me to go on a lot more dates in a way that I late like happy and comfortable and confident about, but more than that, like, just my mindset around, like, everything in my life has changed. So I'm really grateful for it. It's been like, better than I ever imagined it would be. I kind of think of your 2 phrases as a pair in my mind. I think for so long I was talking to people on apps who I was like, okay, well, they kind of have similar interest to me and they liked me. So I guess I should at least see what's happening because what if they're it?

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165. How to start dating as a "late bloomer"

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205. Healing after a hard breakup with Ginger Dean

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Like, I didn't date much. I had this constant story that in my head that I wasn't attractive enough, that I was too much, too sensitive, too bossy, too loud, too, like, I grew up in the deep South. I'm too progressive for most people. And that was fine with me, but it just perpetuated this, like, I'm weird. In my context, I'm gonna be alone again.

207. Coming out, trusting yourself after a breakup, and finding love with my client, Liz

That was fine for me. I would rather be alone than settle both. And there was this sneaky dating belief that I had that it was never gonna happen for me. I write a lot about bloomer in my book that comes out next year, which I'm so excited to share more with you about later. But I I had this high school boyfriend and I was deeply in love. I was like decidedly gonna marry him. Like all these things deep South Christian [] love waits period of my life, which I'm also glad that I escaped from. Like literally affirming my deepest, darkest fear in relationships.

And so I dating by making my needs smaller, by making myself smaller, by shrinking my personality when around people I was attracted to, to try to be more appealing. I had sex for the first time in my mid 20s.