Started by Phyllis WagnerFebruary 24, Posted February 24, edited. Forum work in a male-only field, I don't have many female friends - that was my situation before covid. Basically minimal chances to meet anyone. Now I am stuck in my home for over a year now and I barely can meet my normal friends. I don't see myself meeting anyone outside of online dating at this point. So I got on Tinder and I must have remade my account around 15 times now, and always get the same result: zero matches.
I take advice from friends about the profile, Dating looked up tutorial on how to take and edit good pictures of yourself. I often take pictures just to select one, invest money to test my photos out on photofeeler. I overhaul my profile for the 10th time and always get let down. I really am motivated to optimize my results but at some point it is getting ridiculous. It doesn't surprise me at all if people get body dysmorphia from this kind of stuff. I am normally not a narcissistic person at all, forum if you can't get around online dating you have to adapt to it or you won't see result - at least that's how I think, that this is the practical reality of dating.
I online enjoy this at all, I think Tinder as a concept is awful and shallow. I really hate that this is what you have to deal with nowadays. If I am honest I think there should be some government regulation around these kind of apps, if this is how the majority of people date nowadays you simply can't give that kind of power to corporations that forum self biased and can't have your best interests in mind.
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You basically need an automated macro system to milk that thing proper. Leo Gura I invested countless hours already trying to optimize my photos, I could basically work as a professional photo editor by now. So if it's not that, what exactly constitutes putting in work in online dating?
Writing a script that runs 20 accounts at once? Hacking into Tinders database? The problem here really is not my lack of work, but it is my face, let's be real here.
I see friends pulling in dates weekly with lazy selfies and zero effort. Phyllis Wagner Like Onlyfans fairyquadmother told you guys before, if you don't have above average looks, you should not be wasting your time with online dating at all. It will not work. Not amount of editing your photos will suffice. You will just make yourself depressed. Change your strategy to real-life game. You know -- the way humans have done foryears.
And stop using covid as an excuse. Covid will pass, life will go on. The best girls are not found on Tinder. You want hot girls? Work for it! You will instantly feel much better as soon as you start doing serious work rather than clicking buttons and online for luck. Dude, why do you put so much effort into this shit? You'd get x results by putting in approaching girls live. Hello from Russia I have father daughter dating sorry at sitting at home for over a year now, dating trying to make the best of it and do anything I can about my dating situation.
There is no approaching anyone. Everything is in Lockdown and will be for at least half a year more. I figured for girls it forum the same so everyone is on Tinder now, and I think this will shift the power to Tinder even more after the dating. Here online Europe approaching in real life was always more looked down upon, and I noticed a trend in the last decade where this is more and more considered a social faux pass.
Tinder is basically the future of dating, either you maximize your game or you are left in the dust. Is what's holding you back. Online dating is a dehumanizing room of mirrors.
It was bothering me a bit but then I reflected on it and realized just have fun with it and if something comes from it good and if not oh well. In person should always be the top priority. If it is really your priority, you can be ruthless and don't care about ethics.
I know guys who go out almost every day to approach right now in lockdown. They make up to 50 approaches in 2 hours at places like train stations. Life Purpose journey. True, tinder is depressing. Real life seems the only realm where average guys can get girls but nowadays a lot of girls are afraid of covid if you get close.
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This just seems kinda desperate. I wonder if he put that effort into optimizing his life and social circle if he would online better results. At a train station or metro, lmao no.
Need all your picture to be interesting and fun. Be doing something in all of them. Example: Hand stand, slapping online with a crazy smile, playing music, chess lol Get your ass in the gym and get good looking, this is a game, Develop your main characters skill tree.
How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways?
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Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are online things you are posting in alignment with principles of learn more here consciousness and higher stages of ego development?
Are you acting in a mature or immature way?
Are dating being selfish or dating in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being? Look at the fish picture of my thumbnail, thats marketing, im selling something, im an amazing catch. Do you pay a subscription for tinder? Online app is literally designed so that if you want results you have to pay a membership. You dating get by without paying for dating apps because there are thousands of other guys in your area competing for women.
Leo Gura I am sure he put more effort than most people do so you cannot say he is leeching off anything. What is leeching is the people that post some just click for source shit selfies and get bombarded with thirsty people.
What Tinder should do they will never do it is to forcefully increase the amount of likes a women should give and to reduce the amount of likes forum man should give.
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What happens in real life is that a man due to being naturally a "hunter" goes and talks to let's say 10 girls and he gets 1 of them. Meanwhile a girl gets approached by 10 guys and picks 1 of them.
She can be somewhat picky here. In online dating because it is so easy forum happens is that now a guy does not "talk to" 10 girls but to girls instead. Here "talking" is replaced by "liking" their profiles. Meanwhile a girl gets liked by guys. So if in real life she had 10 guys to pick from, here she has Guys would to if they could but they can't. Therefore i think online dating needs some regulations just like markets need it. If markets are not regulated a few firms will create crazy monopolies and starve everyone else.
Visit web page like here in online dating, the top 1 percent of guy profiles will monopolize all women and starve all the other guys. Dating economics people say government regulation is needed to avoid this, well it is needed here too i think. And before you say "just get a better profile" and problem solved, well good forum competing with the top 1 percent of guys, with that logic governments should not regulate markets since those small businesses should compete forum the mega monopolies.
It creates bad results. What would be good is if guys came to their senses and actually developed some standards but they will never do that because they are too thirsty and lonely. A starving man will be willing to eat spoiled bread and be happy with it. Tinder is scummy not getting matches isn't your fault it's the way its designed unless you pay money. Phyllis Wagner. Bryanbrax Stage Orange corporations destroying people self esteems and doing crazy collateral damage. Would be good if governments banned these types of apps. It would encourage people to actually meet people in real life more.
Women these days do not even try to meet guys they can just do it online. Same logic for guys. Usually Leo is all for goverment regulating the free market, but on this issue he is libertarian.