I'm on a 'regular site' and have already been rejected because I have cardiac problems. Weirdos do exist on the dating sites but they also exist in 'real life'. I'd date a guy even if he'd be deaf, etc.
I know a lot of people younger one perhaps? For site 'young' woman like me, it can be considered a visual handicap for lots of men to see that big hard bump near the left breast. For example I've had 2 ablations, having another one in 10 days epicardial and endocardial. I have an ICD that requires replacement every years gotta get it replaced in less than a year. I know replacement surgery isn't all that dangerous, but it's still surgery. I can perfectly see why that might stop people before they get to know you. They would be heading into a relationship knowing that you are going to have multiple surgeries, ER trips, and possibly emergency surgeries.
I feel bad about placing someone in that situation to. I mean, it makes me feel cruel getting into a relationship site that I would cause them anxiety, concern, etc. I see site in my father in the last 3 emergency angel trips I've made in the last 2 weeks. I can also see why having a large lump on your chest ladies, it shows just as bad on men to This fortunately can be resolved with a good EP and the correct placement mine is getting moved when I get it replaced.
I'm not saying it makes it impossible, it just makes it harder. Since I work from home and don't do the bar scene, I find it really difficult to meet men. Anyways, it's one of those days where I'm so discouraged that I think I'll end up single I'm only 39!
I had a GF for a few years that I met on Match I disclosed the PM after a few dates when things were getting serious and it was no big deal. I think she was a little freaked out that I might die on her, but I just told her to relax about it. We dated for about four years. Yeah i feel you. Im on the same boat. I tried going on dating sites to see if i can find a good guy but they all disappear or site talking after i tell them about my pacemaker.
Its so hard to meet good men these days. I also feel like i will be single forever. I am 29 and divorced but wish i could some day get married and have kids. But Im starting to think that maybe it wont happen for me. Oh well. Cant force people to want to be with you. All you angel do is explain things about your condition and if they dont like it. Reading all of the above I totally agree with - bit why an earth would you tell someone before you have web agreed to date?!
Go out, Have fun, date the usual way but tell them nothing. If you like the person and things ate going really well then and only then tell them! Live the dream! I believe that heart problems and a defibrillator is a BIG thing hey, don't get me wrong, I'm in peace with all that and I think of my defibrillator as my guardian angel, not a pain in the ass.
I couldn't start dating a guy and then tell him after a few dates « angel, by the way, I have a defib ». I believe in being honest right from the start or otherwise, I wouldn't have peace of mind. Still don't know if it's a good one or not dating I don't know if there's a 'good selection' in your area. Worth trying? Like me, you are way too young to stay single! Since then I've had a couple of other incidents none as dramatic as that first one and she's stuck with me the entire time -- hospitalizations and all. I also think dating helps that I'm pretty active, upbeat and not too concerned about having a device implanted in me.
I see it as something that has artificially made me stronger than most humans when it comes to cardiac electrical conduction. It's a big ocean out there and you'll meet someone eventually.
I'm sure there are lots of guys like me with whom you automatically have something in common.
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