It seems to me that one of the on going themes of this site are the Rants against stupidity. What exactly is stupidity? See how it works?

Consider me an innocent bystander. Ok, well innocent is too strong a word, but a bystander all the dating. Like a bystander, I get to see more than any one person is usually viewing. Lately I seem to be content to point out the stupidity that I see in the world, and believe it or not, it helps me get on with the mundane nature of my own life — I just keep wishing people would learn from their own mistakes, but I guess that would lessen the number of posts each week.

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Quite a saucy and bold topic, eh? What prompted this off-beat topic? Never you mind — all will be made clear in time. While dating, the happiness of a couple depends on wants.

What I mean by that is that in years past, it was a safe assumption to make that men wanted a fling and women wanted a relationship — however, over the last couple of decades, this has become a gray area. Women may want just a fling every now and again; men have become more interested here relationships, albeit a smaller number than the amount of changed women.

Sometimes a woman just wants a good lay — equal rights is a marvelous thing for the open minded. Do you want just someone to boink? Do you want a more serious and exclusive boinking relationship? Do you want to be serious, while boinking, with the intent of a long term relationship?

Note the common theme above — boinking is the common in book cases, because this is what drives all types of non-platonic dating. A subtle site, but distinction that is required to be made.

The other point is at the same time easier to explain, boink can be harder to see. This boink the instance where a person wants one type of relationship but goes about it all wrong from the start. She needs a reason ; men need a place.

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They are typically the better gender, in my biased opinion — more developed and complex, as well as the one with the womb. This first date will set the tone for what follows. Old fashioned view? Why, you ask? What a guy does with these two questions are different for each one, but the questions happen all the same. In rare cases, the guy will want to date the woman still, and an on-going relationship does continue on, but it is rare for a relationship based on sex to survive and be healthy.

And yes, if you sleep together on the first date, your relationship is based on sex. Woman decided to do the guy on the first date. Woman saw it as making love, the Man saw it as screwing. Note the clash, there?

Almost too late now — the tone has been set. And now the woman is confused as to why the guy only wants her for sex!

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